sheherazade wrote:Why do you consider yourself counterculture?
What defines counterculture?
Counter Cultural= against the tides. I'm against what the culture says is okay... dressing like a floozey.... drugs, drinking, messing around. All these things, and so many more, the culture has redeemed acceptable. Well, I'm going against the tides and saying they're not.
Why?.... well I'll tell you. If I was really so desparate to have a guy notice me that I'd hardly dress at all and spend over 50$ on an outfit that probably only cost the retail market $3.56 to make I'd rather go around naked. That's what the girls out there dressed like that really want anyway. Save the 50$. I think that dressing provocative to get a guys attentions is totally uncalled for. A guy should like you for who you are on the inside. And after they consider the inside then they can be honorable to how the address the way you look. A guy who's not after the heart is only after one thing. What a scum bag!
As for the drugs and drinking... well I've seen enough of my extensive family struggle with this stuff it's so not funny. Alot of my friends too. It totally bombs! Why would I want to get mixed up in a whole lot of stuff that's going to mess me up!? Hello, Mickfly! That's so stupid!
Messing around is so out of the question... All of the friends I had in middle school are now mothers.... most of the babies are almost 2. I'm mean really! I'm in no state to start messing around with a guy. Really. If I were to debate this with a nonchristian I wouldn't even have to use verses from the Bible. Just one example. The first guy I ever "loved" dumped me after going out for two years for no reason at all... and the wrost thing, he did it through my best friend.
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Anyway. For the past 3 years his been in a relationship with a total witch! She won't let him even speak to me any more. Long story short. They are living together... not married, and have been sleeping together the entire time they've been together. It broke my heart when I found out. Told me that he was miserable, but stuck in love. He's wanted out, but can't. Everytime you sleep with someone, or just "mess" around, part of your heart attatches itself to that person. Sex is to be one man one woman after marriage. Sex bonds you to your mate, and it's really hard to bond with your mate if you've had lots of others... get my drift.
Okay so I'm beginning to rant..... so I'll stop here.
sheherazade wrote:What kind of music do you listen to?
I listen to all kinds of music. Metal, Classical, Christian Contemparary... none secular though.... my mom hasn't allowed us to listen to anything other than Christian for a while. But then I turned 18 and my window of opprotunity came to expand my music knowledge. So far I've listened to bands like the Agony Scene to Opera to RK ect.