goldenspines (post: 1510502) wrote:Are girls really that scary? D: I mean, most of us don't bite and if we do, we don't deserve a boyfriend/husband anyways.
goldenspines (post: 1510502) wrote:Are girls really that scary? D: I mean, most of us don't bite and if we do, we don't deserve a boyfriend/husband anyways.
Jingo Jaden (post: 1510485) wrote:You're not doing your part, so you probably won't get one out of the blue.
Otaku Jordan (post: 1510505) wrote:...
Yes.
Cognitive Gear (post: 1510534) wrote:Step 1: Have self confidence.
Step 2: Go about your life, working towards your own goals, aspirations, and callings.
Step 3: Be ready and willing to be friendly.
Really this is all it takes.
I do want to say, though, that being shy doesn't mean that you are incapable of talking to other people. You can still do it, you just have to push yourself a little harder.
TWWK (post: 1510601) wrote:
Getting to know someone as a friend first and then approaching the idea of a relationship could take some of the nervousness out of it.
The "friend zone" is somewhat an immature way to approach relationships, imho. I know people (especially girls) will categorize their male friends like this, though.mechana2015 (post: 1510605) wrote:This of course presumes that the girl doesn't 'friend zone' you once you get to know her.
goldenspines (post: 1510609) wrote:The "friend zone" is somewhat an immature way to approach relationships, imho. I know people (especially girls) will categorize their male friends like this, though.
Yet, the point I was driving at is that before a relationship can start growing, it's best when it starts in a friendship. Granted, just because you are someone's friend doesn't mean it has to stay that way (it can develop into something more), yet it shouldn't feel like you have to be more than their friend either (otherwise, I'd feel obligated to ask out every guy I considered a friend. Or wait, that sounds like an insult. I don't mean it like that! D: Maybe I should ask them out...*mulls over this*).
Though, what do you do with a girl who operates by the rules of the "friend zone"? With all due respect, wait for her to grow up. :\
/preachy goldy
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