That sounds really sick - doesn't it. We all desire to love our dogs, to care for them to make each others lives as good as possible. We have three at the moment and two of them love us to death as much as we love them. They all live indoors with us, we keep the food and water next to the door so we can always make sure they've got something to eat or drink whenever they want. In fact, I've shared a bed with them on a couple of cases. Not really the best of sleeping conditions - but sometimes they really feel like they had the last spot on the couch first.
The problem is that this new dog isn't like our 'other' dogs. He challenged our pit-bull from the time he was a puppy. Our pit-bull-lab mix, the saint, only growled and took an occasional snap in the air from being constantly challenged and bit at (and bit). We've truly been amazed at how many things this creature has pulled on our pit-bull that we thought we'd have to jump in and save his rump from, when the pit-bull just chose to be the bigger man and walked away. Still we pulled the puppy away and told him to stop when this happened - but that just hasn't worked. We smacked them both when fights broke out later on - our pit-bull stopped trying to hold his position as alpha among the dogs. While, the puppy just snapped at us.
Overall though, we've never used any kind of real force on our animals - that would be wrong and violates everything we believe in. They may get a quick tap on the butt, but that's only if they're going to hurt someone else, or themselves. But unfortunately, that puppy is now a dog and has made it clear on several occasions he doesn't feel the same way towards us. He drew blood on my mother because he didn't want his nails trimmed (when the claws get too long, they curve around which can hurt them - as they live inside to avoid sticking them in 100 degree weather. We just trim the tops of the nails to a more natural length. The other dogs take this without making a face at all). He didn't like it, he didn't flinch, he just decided he didn't want to do it and so he bit her hard bruising her bone and drawing blood.
In fact, that seems to be the trend. If he does something bad and we try to put him in another room to isolate him for a few minutes, he turns around and snaps at us. Today he bit me on several occasions including one time strong enough to break the skin and bruise my right hand... it doesn't feel to good to type this at the current time. He literally lunged at me and I had to grab him by the collar and yank him back and felt very much threatened by his actions. He wasn't just snappy, he was being downright aggressive and I felt that if this went south and I didn't do anything I could well end up in the hospital (this is not a small dog).
After I had caught him, I pushed him back then pushed down to signal that I wanted him to give up dominance... I had him by the collar, I controlled his head. He could still turn it fast and give me a nip, but one twist and I could cut off his air and... well I had solid control over where that fight was going and I wanted it to end peacefully (although I felt quite frightened and confused about what to do in this kind of situation - I never ran into it before and I hadn't been taught what to do if your own dog attacks you). He acted like he submitted, laid down and essentially said "I give up" with his body language. I waited with this for about five seconds, then released him and went to leave him be.
But the moment I let go of his collar he flew and bit down into my hand by the rim (which was the bite that results in my current pain), before going for a better nip... at which point I had him a second time. I had him down on the ground a second time and noticed that while his eyes said, "I give up" he was literally curling his lip at me. I gave him a couple of whacks and pushed him back. He took a snap at me and missed as I closed the door and left him in there.
I'm confused at this point how to proceed. He is making it clear that hurting me, even severely hurting or trying to kill me is on his list of options... but it's wrong for me to have those on my list and frankly I'm not looking for a hand-to-tooth fight to the death with a great-Pyrenees, especially as they get older... at which point nothing my natural body will have will be sufficient to stop him. (No I didn't choose a great-pyreness, my parents did)
The violence is escalating from his end and for my own life I fear I may be forced to escalate it myself out of protection of my own life... maybe that's just because my hand still hurts a fair a deal and I'm just happy it wasn't my neck he bit. At this rate though, he's going to end up dead if he keeps down this path by one means or another. Has anyone else run into this with their animals before? I've had tons of dogs, cats, birds - they've all been awesome, even a wild sparrow and tarantulas. We get along great with animals, if he's never been hurt, or injured or harmed by us all the way from when he's a baby, why is he acting like this and does anyone else know what needs to be done (we've joked about getting his teeth removed on a couple of occasions and just feeding him jello for the rest of his life XD - needless to say my mother and I both didn't like getting nipped - but without teeth, the most he could do is gum us to death... Our pit-bull likes this option too).
Anyways - what would you do if your dog was acting like this?
Sadly,
-Dante