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A friend

Postby Aedin » Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:12 pm

I have a friend online who deals with a lot of the same stuff I do. Everytime we talk, and I'm not doing ok, she blames herself, says it's because she can't make me happy. I keep trying to tell her it's not her fault, that my unhappiness all has to do with me, my personality, and my past, but she keeps blaming herself. I tried to tell her that again, that it's never her fault if I'm unhappy (because really, someone's happiness never comes from one single person) but I think I upset her, because she said something that made it clear she's upset, then she logged off. I didn't get annoyed, or mad, or angry, or irritated, or upset, or anything, with her, at all, and I still manage to make things worse.
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Postby Midori » Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:19 pm

I'll be praying for your friend. It doesn't matter what the source of unhappiness is, I am praying that it will all be for God's glory in the end.
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Postby Aedin » Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:22 pm

Well, we're working things out (thank God she got back online and let me explain) but please keep praying she'll stop blaming herself for stuff that isn't her fault.

And another friend is having severe family issues. Please pray for her.
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Postby Hiryu » Sun Dec 19, 2010 9:13 am

You should probably atleast acknowledge the fact that she's trying to make you feel better. I know that it may not, but you could atleast thank her for trying.
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Postby Aedin » Sun Dec 19, 2010 11:09 am

You assume that I don't do that?
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Postby MrKrillz0r » Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:35 pm

Aight man, just keep doin' ya best to make her understand and be nice to her. There is nothing else ya can do really.. :) I'm sure things will get better for ya friends, I'll pray for you and them as well. :D
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Postby Hiryu » Mon Dec 20, 2010 2:28 pm

No, I think that you could make it more explict, though.
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Postby Aedin » Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:48 pm

I think people on this site should stop assuming so much.
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Postby Kunoichi » Tue Dec 21, 2010 8:42 am

Praying for both friends. All you can do is be there for them as best you can.
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Postby ABlipinTime » Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:52 pm

Praying for your friend.
Hope she's doing better now.

Aedin (post: 1445486) wrote:I think people on this site should stop assuming so much.

Unfortunately, it's a habit since so much of life requires them, such as in what I just said.
- God is always with us, especially when we feel most alone.
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Postby fermy6 » Fri Dec 31, 2010 12:31 am

Am praying for both friends
If someone said 3 years from now
You'd be long gone
Id get up and punch their mouth
Cuz they're all wrong
I know better
Cuz you said forever
And ever
Who knew?
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