She keeps talking about being confused, not knowing what to do, not knowing God's will for her. There's a lot that makes me believe I'm God's will for her, but if I'm right, I want her to know for herself. So will everyone please pray for her, that God will give her clarity, tell her what to do, what his will for her is?
If you see this post, I love you. I'll be praying for you too, everyday.
My girlfriend
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Sure thing.
Proverbs 31:32 "...when she watches anime, she keeps the room well lit and sits at a safe distance."
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Rusty Claymore - Posts: 1258
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WnCEyfRdvDY&ob=av3e
There is no solid way to know what God wants you to do. Just read through the gospels, pray over it, give you mind some peace. Recommend just going to a park with like waterfalls or something, simply walk away from what is troubling you. I don't recommend walking away and staying away. Doing so can help clear your mind, enable you to think clearly. Just remember:
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Be at peace and know that even though you don't know His sovereign Will, know that whatever it is, it is to bring you peace, a future, and hope. Don't worry about what will happen tomorrow, God is already there and He loves you enough have allow his Son to die on the cross to bear your sins.
There is no solid way to know what God wants you to do. Just read through the gospels, pray over it, give you mind some peace. Recommend just going to a park with like waterfalls or something, simply walk away from what is troubling you. I don't recommend walking away and staying away. Doing so can help clear your mind, enable you to think clearly. Just remember:
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Be at peace and know that even though you don't know His sovereign Will, know that whatever it is, it is to bring you peace, a future, and hope. Don't worry about what will happen tomorrow, God is already there and He loves you enough have allow his Son to die on the cross to bear your sins.
Psalms 82:3-4
Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless;
maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed.
Rescue the weak and needy;
deliver them from the hand of the wicked.
Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless;
maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed.
Rescue the weak and needy;
deliver them from the hand of the wicked.
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Midknight74012 - Posts: 252
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Midknight74012 (post: 1422572) wrote:For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
I'm chuckling mildly here because I told you that before!
yes of course we'll pray.
And this I pray, that your love would abound still, more and more with real knowledge and all discernment. Be prepared to preach the gospel at a moment's notice. Do you know the gospel well enough to do so yourself? Be ready.
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Furen - Posts: 2695
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Iwill be praying tht god will give her guidence. And that no matter what happens remember that Jesus fails us not!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcxNAIbQkdY <---this video and song really really helped me through the hard stuff in my life. He fails us not.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcxNAIbQkdY <---this video and song really really helped me through the hard stuff in my life. He fails us not.
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I don't feel comfortable giving a name, especially since she's on this forum. I just made this topic, so people wouldn't have to wade through my other topic.
Also, like I said, she keeps talking about needing time and space to figure things out. I feel like that means she needs time away from me, but I don't think she's gonna take time away from the other guy either. That seems kindof unfair, and kindof hurts, so if people could pray God will help me deal with that too, that would be nice.
Also, like I said, she keeps talking about needing time and space to figure things out. I feel like that means she needs time away from me, but I don't think she's gonna take time away from the other guy either. That seems kindof unfair, and kindof hurts, so if people could pray God will help me deal with that too, that would be nice.
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That will also be in my prayers!
And this I pray, that your love would abound still, more and more with real knowledge and all discernment. Be prepared to preach the gospel at a moment's notice. Do you know the gospel well enough to do so yourself? Be ready.
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Furen - Posts: 2695
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Think anyone could pray God will help me know what to do, as well?
I'm really not doing well. I can't stop crying. I'm convinced she's gonna leave me, convinced she doesn't want to work things out, and I feel like there's nothing I can do. I feel like she's sick of me, and **** at me, and I hate myself because noone can stand me and stick by me. Just got a message from someone else I thought was a friend, they don't want to talk to me anymore, and I don't know why people dislike me so much. I try to be better, be more positive, but I guess people just can't stick with me while I try. Kinda makes me wonder why I try in general.
I'm really not doing well. I can't stop crying. I'm convinced she's gonna leave me, convinced she doesn't want to work things out, and I feel like there's nothing I can do. I feel like she's sick of me, and **** at me, and I hate myself because noone can stand me and stick by me. Just got a message from someone else I thought was a friend, they don't want to talk to me anymore, and I don't know why people dislike me so much. I try to be better, be more positive, but I guess people just can't stick with me while I try. Kinda makes me wonder why I try in general.
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I keep staring at gmail, thinking she'll log in and we'll start talking. I went to a coin shop today, bought a bar of silver, and traded one of my coins for another coin. Any other day, I would've been super excited to tell her all about it. What hurts most, is I can't say anything, cause she'll use it as a reason to leave me. I remember a long time ago, we had a fight about something, I don't remember what. But I was really hurt, and it was hard to want to stay in the relationship, and if I remember right, she basically said if I wasn't willing to try, she wasn't willing to try. And she keeps bringing up not knowing what I'll do, as if what I will or won't do, has an effect on her decision. When she first told me, I really felt like she was leaving me, and was trying to let me down easy, so since she was acting like she decided to leave me, I acted like she was gonna leave me. Then she said that she felt like I made her decision for her, so she had to go for the other guy. What I will or won't do, has no affect on her decision, and because she keeps acting like it does, I feel like she's been stringing me along for two weeks, and manipulating me to stay in a relationship, that I'm the only one who wants to be in it. She's barely talked to me for weeks, and even before things got this bad, she still barely talked to me. She clearly wants out, she clearly wants to drop me for the other guy, I don't get why she keeps stringing me along and manipulating me.
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Hey Aiden, just reminding you that whatever happens with you or your girlfriend or anything else, you've still got Jesus, who loves you so much that he died for you and would do it again if he had to. You're not alone in your troubles here, either.
I think I kinda know what you're talking about with your friend, thinking you're the one who's supposed to show them Christ's love and hitting brick walls when you actually try to do that. Y'see, a friend of mine is, basically, a hedonist. Everything he does, as far as I can tell, is for his own pleasure, and it's working. He's an exchange student with a seemingly-infinite supply of cash that's paying for his apartment and cruises, he's got a girlfriend both in the US and back home, and if he messes up a class or seven, oh well, his dad will pay for more schooling until he gets it right.
But y'know what? Seeing the things you've been talking about, if given the choice, I'd rather be you than him. All his relationships (again, as far as I can tell) are, once again, all about himself happy or (in my case) trying to keep his grades up so he can stick around in the US. The only reason he got a new girlfriend over here was just so that he could have sex with her, the things he says and does are stupid and offensive, he's wasted three years learning about something he has no interest in; his life's a mess, and he doesn't care, as long as he doesn't have to leave the US.
You, meanwhile, are broken and are honestly seeking out God and His will with everything you've got, and I absolutely believe that you'll find it; God isn't done with you yet. You're doing better at wanting God, hungering for Him, than I am. I'm sick of this boring, punch-clock relationship that I have with God right now, and you've inspired me to change that, to take a deeper look at my life and what I can do about refocusing it on God - thanks! That's proof enough for me that you aren't nearly as bad off as you think you are.
I think I kinda know what you're talking about with your friend, thinking you're the one who's supposed to show them Christ's love and hitting brick walls when you actually try to do that. Y'see, a friend of mine is, basically, a hedonist. Everything he does, as far as I can tell, is for his own pleasure, and it's working. He's an exchange student with a seemingly-infinite supply of cash that's paying for his apartment and cruises, he's got a girlfriend both in the US and back home, and if he messes up a class or seven, oh well, his dad will pay for more schooling until he gets it right.
But y'know what? Seeing the things you've been talking about, if given the choice, I'd rather be you than him. All his relationships (again, as far as I can tell) are, once again, all about himself happy or (in my case) trying to keep his grades up so he can stick around in the US. The only reason he got a new girlfriend over here was just so that he could have sex with her, the things he says and does are stupid and offensive, he's wasted three years learning about something he has no interest in; his life's a mess, and he doesn't care, as long as he doesn't have to leave the US.
You, meanwhile, are broken and are honestly seeking out God and His will with everything you've got, and I absolutely believe that you'll find it; God isn't done with you yet. You're doing better at wanting God, hungering for Him, than I am. I'm sick of this boring, punch-clock relationship that I have with God right now, and you've inspired me to change that, to take a deeper look at my life and what I can do about refocusing it on God - thanks! That's proof enough for me that you aren't nearly as bad off as you think you are.
We are loved even though we suck.
Psalms 37:37 (NHEB)
Mark the perfect man, and see the upright, for there is a future for the man of peace.
Psalms 37:37 (NHEB)
Mark the perfect man, and see the upright, for there is a future for the man of peace.
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Thanks everyone.
there's a lot I want to say, but that dog bite messed everything up, last night I was stumbling around, had ah ard time keeping balance, my mind wdas going really fast, it hwas ard toin think. I'm still dealing with that today. I'm gonna try to respond to everything later.
and just because I'm pretty sure she's gonna see this. I just wanted to say how much I love my girlfriend.
there's a lot I want to say, but that dog bite messed everything up, last night I was stumbling around, had ah ard time keeping balance, my mind wdas going really fast, it hwas ard toin think. I'm still dealing with that today. I'm gonna try to respond to everything later.
and just because I'm pretty sure she's gonna see this. I just wanted to say how much I love my girlfriend.
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