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Postby ninjaduckofdoom » Fri Dec 05, 2008 9:06 am

I need some advice for how to deal with a situation that has arisen with a friend of mine from high school. It's actually kind of strange... had a dream last night that I looked at his livejournal and I checked it today and he has a written a post stating his plans to kill himself. I completely intend to confront him about this but should I go ahead and inform his mother now or wait till I've spoken to him? Should I contact anyone else? Perhaps a pastor or maybe a counselor?

I've known for a while that he struggles with depression and I know he's on meds for it, he also talks quite often about death and things like that, but he's a bit of a drama queen and I had not felt I had a reason to worry until now. I'd greatly appreciate prayer and advice.
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Postby Prince Asbel » Fri Dec 05, 2008 10:34 am

I say notify ALL those people immediately. That's what I would do.
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Postby chibiphonebooth » Fri Dec 05, 2008 10:53 am

notify all people, including parents.
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Postby xblack_x_rosesx » Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:52 pm

It's very serious =[
Tell his family, even if it is a "cry wolf" kind of thing.

Notify peoples.
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Postby Roz » Fri Dec 05, 2008 3:35 pm

I big time agree.

You need to tell all of the above.
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Postby 12praiseGOD » Fri Dec 05, 2008 4:09 pm

Tell all!
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Postby ninjaduckofdoom » Fri Dec 05, 2008 7:06 pm

Thanks guys, I'm informing his mother. I'm sure he'll be angry with me but I hope it turns out for the best.
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Postby Roz » Sat Dec 06, 2008 6:09 pm

The fact that you're telling his parents even though you know he'll be mad.....would that everybody had such a friend! :)
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Postby 12praiseGOD » Mon Dec 29, 2008 7:25 am

Still praying!
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Postby Slytherine » Wed Dec 31, 2008 5:18 pm

I hope everything worked out for the best. ^_^
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