[quote="Nekomimi (post: 1413310)"]Okay, gotta represent Hawaii here: "Old-fashioned" can mean more than just the Judeo-Christian American/European culture. If you have a different ethnic background like I do, it means other things as well. "Old-fashioned" can mean "traditional", like something positive culturally, or it can mean "embarrassing" like, well, embarrassing culturally, especially in an American context XD "Old-fashioned" can mean being strong enough to retain your identity as a new immigrant, or being proud of your roots as a native Hawaiian, or learning about your family's culture and language and the hundreds of people you're related to on the island (and in at least three other countries). It can also mean you're not acclimating to America quickly enough & getting the "FOB" label slapped on you, or it can mean you're uptight about things like your grandkid/niece marrying a non-whatever-ethnicity-you-are.
Now that I've got that off my chest, I gotta say that I'm not really old-fashioned about anything, sorry. Well, except the part about being proud of where I come from & my cultural & spiritual identity, I guess that's kinda old-fashioned. Otherwise, I open doors for whoever, I go online whenever, I ask guys out (& get shot down!), I like to party at bon dances & anime conventions & church camps, I like my kanji tattoo, & boy, do I like clean running water, western toilets & electricity. If you've ever lived in a place that didn't have those, you know what I mean ]
As my history teacher expertly put it, America is not a "melting pot" of cultures but rather a "tossed salad", because in my honest opinion America has this way of attempting to bully everyone into acting "more American." where this idea came from is beyond me, as our constitution explicitly states that America exists for the people, and NOT people for America. It vexes me to no end to see people bashing other cultures, religions, languages, or traditions, because no matter how wrong you think they are you can't change them by bullying them and hatred.
Rant over.
It's cool to have someone from another culture here, Aloha!