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I finally found a great possible girl!...

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 12:09 am
by Spector
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I finally met a awesome Christian girl, whom is everything I'm looking for, on a Christian Retreat! Everything from her personality to her height! Not to say Ive been super picky, but Ive just never really met many girls my age, let alone single, and shes great!

I could go on forever about what I like about her..but I'm worried.
I like her so much, but since I met her at a place where the whole general city met, we actually live clear across town. Like, we couldn't live farther away without being in another city. :sniffle:

I still don't have a car, and even if I did, its like an hour+ drive one way.
I really like her, but even in the best situation, it would be really hard to see her. I'm sad cause its something I always wish would go well, but it never does.

I just want prayer that if this is meant to be, I would trust God in it all. But if not, I don't want to hold on to it in vain. Ive don't that before, and it just hurt despite my best efforts.
I just wish I wasn't alone, and this girl is something else.

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 12:19 am
by Mr. SmartyPants
Above all things (well... most things), just be yourself. =)

I pray things work out for the best.

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 12:21 am
by Tsukuyomi
I'll be praying ^^ Like MSP said, just be yourself ^^

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:39 am
by Atria35
Praying!

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 10:28 am
by Beau Soir
Spector, God's in control. Live your life with trust and faith in Him and that He'll take care of it no matter how this turns out- He makes all kinds of things happen in which our human minds can't make ends meet. My suggestion is that even if this doesn't turn out the way you want, ask God to help you be accepting of that.
I say this with confidence because the guy I've got feelings for lives in a different state, lol...

I'll be praying! :)

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 11:37 am
by Makachop^^128
Will be praying

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 12:54 pm
by Radical Dreamer
Just be glad it's only an hour and not the length of the entire country.

If you think something's there, I say go for it. An hour is a freakishly short drive, especially when you can arrange to meet in the middle, driving 30 minutes each or something. It's not that far. XD

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 2:41 pm
by Rusty Claymore
Reading the title I was all, "Well, make sure it really is a girl..." XP Take Luck! n.n/)

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:45 pm
by ABlipinTime
@Spector:
*sigh* *thinks about the concept of emotions* I'll be praying for you, but I encourage you to sit down and spend time thinking about God. Make sure that God is the first thing on your mind and then it should be easier to see if being in this relationship is really where He wants you to be. In other words, make sure to stay in tune with God, and don't let your emotions run away from you. But I'm sure you already knew that; I'm just providing a reminder.


Rusty Claymore (post: 1457909) wrote:Reading the title I was all, "Well, make sure it really is a girl..." XP Take Luck! n.n/)


Took me a second to get it... lol

PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 8:55 pm
by Lynna
Well, congratulations! Although you really should talk it out with God and get to know her better.
Also, I live an hour and 40 minutes from the nearest city. Trust me, people in the city act like it is some great distance, but the reality is, when you have to drive across it to go see the orthodontist, it becomes short.