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My mom was proposed to not too long ago and at first, she accepted. But come bed time, she has having doubts and then declined, leaving after that. Now she feels like crap, thinking she hurt his feelings

I'll be praying ^__^

Have they talked things out o.o? I'm not sure about the details, but that may help sort things out ^^

I'll pray for her.^-^ God will work it out.

Will be praying ^^

@Tsuku, I don't know. I am also in the dark. But my sister and I are going to do something special for her. I bought her a bento box for her last week and my sis and I are going to make a little lunch for her, including a chocolate bar, as well as handwritten notes from the both of us.

Midknight74012 (post: 1373943) wrote:@Tsuku, I don't know. I am also in the dark. But my sister and I are going to do something special for her. I bought her a bento box for her last week and my sis and I are going to make a little lunch for her, including a chocolate bar, as well as handwritten notes from the both of us.

That sounds sweet ^__^ I hope everything goes well ^__^

Pancakes with syrup, an orange, carrots, cottage cheese, and some tea. Hope this cheers her up.

The best thing you can do for her is just listen, don't make any judgements/comments/suggestions. The best cure for this type of situation is just to have someone to confide in, be it god, or your children.

Also I'm a fan of monkey paw tea myself.

GAINAX (post: 1373953) wrote:The best thing you can do for her is just listen, don't make any judgements/comments/suggestions. The best cure for this type of situation is just to have someone to confide in, be it god, or your children.

Very true GAINAX. Good advice.

And, I'll be praying for you and your mom

I imagine there is no harder decision than to say no to a potential spouse who you might have said yes to. And given this is a woman who already has been through relationships before (assuming this, given your existence) the doubts and worries must be much worse.

But one of the worst things she can do now is to wall herself off from him, trying to insulate her and his feelings. Be her friend, but counsel her to be his friend.

Will be praying Mid.