There is a problem here. I look for comfort in people, not Jesus.
I realize that. I am not sure where I am right now. Post more about this later.
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tokiklok wrote:well just talk to people and tell them what your problem is...
Ya, but that's part of their problem. Although asking people to pray for you and stuff isn't bad, the first person we should be looking to is Jesus. I can totally understand why they're worried about relying on humans more than Him.
Will be praying.
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Will be praying ^^
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Okami - Posts: 1771
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For whatever it may be, I'll be praying... Things can be hard though, and I know it can be good to talk to people sometimes, because in most cases... it's where you can get a verbal response...
神 は、 その 独り 子 を お与え に なった ほど に 世 お愛 された。
独り 子 を 信じる 者 が 一人 も滅 ひない で, 永遠 の 命 お得る ため で ある。
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独り 子 を 信じる 者 が 一人 も滅 ひない で, 永遠 の 命 お得る ため で ある。
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Tenshi no Ai - Posts: 4789
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Oh I SO know this problem! I have a lot of struggles of my own at the moment and I so often I don't want to be still and pray, I want to cling to those near and dear to me and be soothed by their love and presence. I don't want to take the time to remember that God is really with me whether I feel He is or not. I want something tangible, a shoulder I can touch and clutch. A hand that pats my back so I can truly feel each gentle thump. And a voice that murmurs much less demanding words. It's a comfort, but not a cure.
I know that we're made to be social creatures who can turn to each other for support and comfort, but when that comes between us and God, it isn't a good thing. We both know we need to turn to God first. I've found in my struggles with it - and you probably have too - that it gets easier the more you do it. The first steps can be the hardest. I guess there's no easy way about it - we just need to do it, being careful not to be resentful about it. I struggle with that, too. Often, I do the right thing feeling very resentful and self-righteous about it. The cure for it seems to be humility and love.
In some ways, it's human nature, but I've been praying about similar things and I've really seen my heart start to change in ways I didn't think it could. We can only do so much against problems like this - but God really does and will help us. Prayer helps. I'll be praying for both of us.
Piney.
I know that we're made to be social creatures who can turn to each other for support and comfort, but when that comes between us and God, it isn't a good thing. We both know we need to turn to God first. I've found in my struggles with it - and you probably have too - that it gets easier the more you do it. The first steps can be the hardest. I guess there's no easy way about it - we just need to do it, being careful not to be resentful about it. I struggle with that, too. Often, I do the right thing feeling very resentful and self-righteous about it. The cure for it seems to be humility and love.
In some ways, it's human nature, but I've been praying about similar things and I've really seen my heart start to change in ways I didn't think it could. We can only do so much against problems like this - but God really does and will help us. Prayer helps. I'll be praying for both of us.
Piney.
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Pinecone Tortoi - Posts: 41
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I think I know this too. It's awful to suddenly feel so exposed and vulnerable and then to understand that the only way to find peace is to stop let go of all the security we keep grasping at. It's sickening thought when you're in the grips of fear, but relaxing your hold on your material comforts and life and instead seeking God's will for you is the way to go. It does bring peace and a strange confidence. Be patient and trusting.
We are told so many times not to worry because God is with us and for us. It's hard, but once you ask Him for help and start trying to relax, it comes much easier. God wants you to trust and seek Him and will help you. Don't forget that nothing can rip you away from Him. http://www.blueletterbible.org/morneve/07/0713pm.html Things don't always turn out as we want them to, but that they will turn out as God chooses them to. He knows what's best so much better than we do.
I frequently feel alone and in danger, particularly at night, even though I live with family. I get confused and scared and begin to worry about basic things. What really helps me then is to back off and remember that I'm here to live for God, not me. That get things back in perspective and relaxes that urge for comfort and a life I want.
Keep in mind that I'm addressing this as if you're not actually in danger but are still feeling scared. Obviously the above applies whatever the circumstances and if you're actually in some sort of danger, get help.
Already praying for you.
Piney.
We are told so many times not to worry because God is with us and for us. It's hard, but once you ask Him for help and start trying to relax, it comes much easier. God wants you to trust and seek Him and will help you. Don't forget that nothing can rip you away from Him. http://www.blueletterbible.org/morneve/07/0713pm.html Things don't always turn out as we want them to, but that they will turn out as God chooses them to. He knows what's best so much better than we do.
I frequently feel alone and in danger, particularly at night, even though I live with family. I get confused and scared and begin to worry about basic things. What really helps me then is to back off and remember that I'm here to live for God, not me. That get things back in perspective and relaxes that urge for comfort and a life I want.
Keep in mind that I'm addressing this as if you're not actually in danger but are still feeling scared. Obviously the above applies whatever the circumstances and if you're actually in some sort of danger, get help.
Already praying for you.
Piney.
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Pinecone Tortoi - Posts: 41
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I will be praying for you. My advice is to be honest with God and your close friends/family about what's going on. God will never leave you or forsake you. Hang in there. (and my PM box is always open, if you'd like 
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